How to improve your standard of Living

Five tips for increasing your standard of living
1. Never expect an outside force to improve your standard of living for you. Increase your standard of living through personal production.
2. Identify your product. If you work for someone and are not sure what your product is, ask your boss what the most important thing you do or can get done on a weekly basis.
3. Find three ways to increase your production speed. Use your ideas until your speed has increased.
4. Find three ways to increase your production quality. Use this idea until your quality improves.
5. Find three ways to increase the amount of production you get done per week. Use this idea until your production volume increases.


Tips of getting ideas for speeches
"Can you do a presentation on next year's forecasts?" asks your manager. "Can you talk about the society's aims?" ask a charity colleague. Sure you can.
1) Stimulate thoughts and ideas: - Staring at a blank piece of paper or a blank screen won't bring ideas to mind. Do something : get your brain working

2) Pick up a magazine: - Choose any article and read it. Try to develop the idea content and see it if could from the basis of speech.

3) Choose a random word: - Open a dictionary and choose word with your finger. Or write down a page number and word number and see what you get. If one word doesn't work, find two words. write one at the top of the page

4) Keep an idea box: - Mine is the box file with articles from magazines, cartoons photos, words, film reviews, names of books, inspirational quotes and anything that might spark my imagination. Shake it up. Choose one and make it the basis of a speech.

5) Think of a famous person: - Choose a famous from history, either at random or by looking to see who was born on the current day. Research that person and explore possible links with an interest of your own.

6) Get ideas from other person: Use every opportunity to sharpen your listening skills. You will be amazed at how many ideas you'll get from your conversations with others. Or simply ask people for ideas: almost everyone will give our at least on suggestion.

7) Pick a quote: - Use a good quote from a book, or try the internet to find a quote to spark an idea.

8) Listen to the radio: - Tune into different programs in the car or during a spare movement.

9) Read widely: - Once you start an idea, develop it as you discover relevant points in related articles.

10) Explore the internet: - It is a great source of material but be wary of believing everything in cyberspace. Donot let an idea go. Don't reject ideas or nip them in the bud, particularly if they don't fit with the objectives of your nest speech. make a note, nurture the idea or it may blossom as material for altar speech

Keep a notebook or file on your computer. Write down ideas as they come, so that you don't forget them. Live and breathe ideas. Start thinking of ideas as soon as you wake up in the morning and throughout the day. Find thinking time. Get away from computer. Go for a walk: enjoy a bath or do anything that stimulates your thoughts. Try silence- some people believe that angels whisper ideas.

11. Make the idea your own: not new, but you: - The biggest problem is that we struggle to find totally new subjects. The reality is that nothing is new. Once you accept that every speech. Remember, the most important thing I so choose a subject you are comfortable with and enjoy. That way you are sure to be yourself and will be more confident in the delivery.

Expand your Horizons

Expand your horizons
1) Learn something new:- Keep a running list of things you would like to learn more about. Set a deadline to go through the items on your list, whenever you have a few minutes, do a little more research.
2) Take a course:- Register for classes in something unfamiliar, like Thai cooking, home renovations or a foreign language. Without over-scheduling your time, challenge your brain with something out of the ordinary to break your routine.
3) Experiment:- Experience something new. Try bubble Tea at the new tea place that opened close to your work. Research and make a list of new wines to try. Attempt to make sushi, cook a t
4) Ask questions :- Take the time to talk to someone older and learn from them. Life lessons are incredibly valuable. Not only will you learn something new, but you will feel great about giving someone else your time and interest.

Do what makes you happy ?
5) Do something funny:-Join a sports team and reap double benefits, you will stay active and fit. Or you can make the plans to go to a concert or check out a new bar.
6) Laugh out loud : -Its healthy to laugh out loud, even if you are alone. Go to the movies, watch your favorite programme . Lighten up your attitude and have fun.
7) Be spontaneous:- Forget about how tired you are after work and do something up planned to break your routine. Call up that babe from accounting and go out for drinks. Or take another route on your drive home to change your outlook.
8) Relax:- Create some me time. Relax and disconnect for a few minutes. Shut of your call phones, turn off the radio, television and computer and let go off worries. Drive around town. Take a walk in the park. Read a book. Making time for yourself doesn't mean painting the living room, unless that 's something you truly enjoy doing .

Do good
9) Do a good deed:- Help others in a small way. Help an elderly person cross the street. Listen to a friends problem without judging or offering solutions.
10) Cheer someone up:- Verbalize your" thank you's". The server and cook at your favorite lunch spot, the bank teller and security guard , the customer service operator will be surprised by a little recognition, and you will find that our spirits are raised also. Offering some spare change to a panhandler on the street
11) Spend time with your loved ones and with the people who are important in your life. Hopefully, many of them fall in both categories. Visit your parents and grandparents, and have lunch or dinner with them. Go for a beer with your friends and maintain contact with old buddies by email or telephone. Make it a habit to called an old friend each week to catch up.

Your frame of mind is important. Start every day on a positive note. Walk around like you won 1 million rupees and, unless you start spending money like you are
Act with integrity and believe in yourself. Before going to bed, you will be able to look back on your day and be happy about it.
Life is full of choices. You can choose to be so absorbed in your work or so ingrained in your old routine that you become one dimensional or you can choose to truly live. Of course, you are not likely to use all these suggestions on the same day. Use them sporadically to make everyday unique and memorable. Take the time to enjoy your life.

Get the best out of yourself

Are you waiting for something wonderful to happen to you ? When someone asks you what you want most in life , does your mind go blank ? If someone asks you where do you see yourself in the next ten years, do you say you don't know , you have-not given it a thought ? In other words , does your philosophy of life go something like ," I believe in fate. Whatever has to happen will happen.''
If these examples describe your way of thinking , then you are not alone . Surveys consistently show that only one person out of ten identifies long term goals . The remaining nine people passively drift through life, taking changes as they come. This is fine , if you have nowhere Togo. However if you have a dream of doing bigger things, you need to put yourself to work and not leave it to destiny.
People who are achievers have a few things in common. They are persevering , committed, able to turn almost every situation in their favour , disciplined , deligent, supportive, encouraging ,optimistic and above all believe in themselves . Here are a few qualities you can start working on if you want to bring out the best in yourself.

1. Belive in yourself
It is very important to believe in yourself. You must have the faith in your ability to face any situation however grim or awkward. At times everything may seem to go wrong , and everything you do seems to have to have opposite effect. You seem to fail in everything you do and even people start saying you are a failure and a good for nothing person. But even if the whole world seems bleak , you must remember , that since everybody is special. You are unique in your own special way and thus enrich this world. Hence you are somebody very special and fruitful . You are not a burden on anybody. You have the power and ability to change the world. Irrespective of what others say, you must always believein yourself and have faith in your abilities.

Really Heart Touching

I was walking around in a Big Bazar store making shopping, when I saw

a Cashier talking to a boy couldn't have been more than 5 or 6 years

old..

The Cashier said, 'I'm sorry, but you don't have enough money to buy

this doll. Then the little boy turned to me and asked: ''Uncle, are

you sure I don't have enough money?''

I counted his cash and replied: ''You know that you don't have enough

money to buy the doll, my dear.'' The little boy was still holding the

doll in his hand.

Finally, I walked toward him and I asked him who he wished to give

this doll to. 'It's the doll that my sister loved most and wanted so

much . I wanted to Gift her for her BIRTHDAY.

I have to give the doll to my mommy so that she can give it to my

sister when she goes there.' His eyes were so sad while saying this.

'My Sister has gone to be with God.. Daddy says that Mommy is going to

see God very soon too, so I thought that she could take the doll with

her to give it to my sister...''

My heart nearly stopped. The little boy looked up at me and said: 'I

told daddy to tell mommy not to go yet. I need her to wait until I

come back from the mall.' Then he showed me a very nice photo of him

where he was laughing. He then told me 'I want mommy to take my

picture with her so my sister won't forget me.' 'I love my mommy and I

wish she doesn't have to leave me, but daddy says that she has to go

to be with my little sister.' Then he looked again at the doll with

sad eyes, very quietly..

I quickly reached for my wallet and said to the boy. 'Suppose we check

again, just in case you do have enough money for the doll?''

'OK' he said, 'I hope I do have enough.' I added some of my money to

his with out him seeing and we started to count it. There was enough

for the doll and even some spare money.

The little boy said: 'Thank you God for giving me enough money!'

Then he looked at me and added, 'I asked last night before I went to

sleep for God to make sure I had enough money to buy this doll, so

that mommy could give It to my sister. He heard me!'' 'I also wanted

to have enough money to buy a white rose for my mommy, but I didn't

dare to ask God for too much. But He gave me enough to buy the doll

and a white rose. My mommy loves white roses.'

I finished my shopping in a totally different state from when I

started. I couldn't get the little boy out of my mind. Then I

remembered a local

news paper article two days ago, which mentioned a drunk man in a

truck, who hit a car occupied by a young woman and a little girl. The

little girl died right away, and the mother was left in a critical

state. The family had to decide whether to pull the plug on the

life-sustaining machine, because the young woman would not be able to

recover from the coma. Was this the family of the little boy?

Two days after this encounter with the little boy, I read in the news

paper that the young woman had passed away.. I couldn't stop myself as

I bought a bunch of white roses and I went to the funeral home where

the body of the young woman was exposed for people to see and make

last wishes before her burial. She was there, in her coffin, holding a

beautiful white rose in her hand with the photo of the little boy and

the doll placed over her chest. I left the place, teary-eyed, feeling

that my life had been changed for ever...

The love that the little boy had for his mother and his sister is

still, to this day, hard to imagine. And in a fraction of a second, a

drunk driver had taken all this away from him.

Please DO NOT DRINK & DRIVE.

Experience of Childhood

It is said that childhood is a pleasant aspect of out life. It is called base of our life. We can experience pleasure of playing games, singing and dancing. It is the base of childhood education. However, I didn’t have pleasant childhood.

Unlike others, I studied in a government school. Open field was school, sake of rice was bench, a wooden plank was my desk, a large number of children and only a teacher. All the primary classes were cared by that single teacher. Playing things were beyond our expectation. Singing was practiced a little but dancing was not possible because all of us were often ashamed in that country environment. I spent my childhood among the children of my village. We used to climb the trees, swim in the rivers and ponds, and chased each other through narrow ways and gaps of the houses. After all, I lived among pleasures of the country life until I departed to the town for high school and college studies. 

Quotes

Ignorance of Law is no ex-cuse,

Your last look in the mirror is the first look of others,

Love is not like a funny games,

Lonliness helps lonliness,

True friend is a gift of god,

Time come once but it never returns back for you,

Dont break the heart which was already broken,

Sick of crying tired of trying yeah im smiling but inside im dying,

Do not wait for the best idea,implement the better idea,still better and the best will follow,

Life is not a interesting game,

If I were To Die Tomorrow,what would you say to Me todax?,

Unity is success,

Unity is the best policy,

If someone feels that they had never made a mistake in their life,then it means they had never tried a new things in their life,

Life is the mixture of happiness and sorrow,